The first weeks of college are supposed to look exciting: new friends, late-night conversations, campus events, independence, and the beginning of a completely new life. That image can make it especially confusing when your actual experienc...
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Your roommate’s clothes are on the floor again. There are cups on the desk, food containers where they should not be, and somehow their belongings keep migrating into your side of the room....
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You walk into class and it looks like everyone already knows where to sit. People arrive in pairs, save seats for friends, make weekend plans before the professor even starts talking, and so...
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A first college date can go from exciting to painfully interview-like in about three questions: “What’s your major?” “Where are you from?” “What do you want to do after graduation?”Those que...
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“If we met in high school, would you have talked to me first?” is not really a question about high school. It is a disguised question about attraction, confidence and who would have made the...
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“What was the first thing about me that made you curious?” is the kind of relationship question that sounds simple but can quickly become personal. Unlike asking what someone first noticed p...
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Which Message From Me Made You Think About Me Too Much? A Question to Restart the SparkA good intimate question can turn routine conversation into something more personal, but it works only...
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Pornemia: Sexual Dry Spells During the COVID-19 PandemicThe COVID-19 pandemic changed how people dated, met strangers and experienced physical intimacy. Lockdowns and social distancing left...
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Geisha Balls: More Than a Sex Toy?Geisha balls, also called Ben Wa balls or vaginal balls, are small weighted devices designed to be inserted into the vagina. They are often marketed as both...
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Saliva or Lube: What Is Better for Sex?Lubrication can make sex more comfortable by reducing friction. Saliva is convenient, but a purpose-made personal lubricant is usually the better optio...
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