The first weeks of college are supposed to look exciting: new friends, late-night conversations, campus events, independence, and the beginning of a completely new life. That image can make it especially confusing when your actual experienc...
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Wanting something casual does not mean wanting something careless. You can be interested in flirting, dating, physical chemistry or spending time together without looking for a committed rel...
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You matched, exchanged numbers or started talking after class. The messages are good, the flirting seems mutual and now comes the classic college dating question: how long are you supposed t...
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“Do you actually like me, or do you just like the idea of me?” is not subtle flirting. It skips past the usual questions about first impressions and favorite compliments and goes directly to...
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“If we met in high school, would you have talked to me first?” is not really a question about high school. It is a disguised question about attraction, confidence and who would have made the...
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“Would you rather get a surprise compliment or a surprise invite to hang out?” has exactly the ingredients that make a good low-pressure flirting question: two appealing choices, no obviousl...
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“What’s the first thing you notice about someone you like?” is one of those dating questions that can sound completely innocent while quietly steering a conversation toward attraction. It do...
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“Would you rather flirt over text or in person?” sounds like an easy either-or question until you actually have to choose. Behind a screen, you have time to think, tease and find exactly the...
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“What’s a compliment from me that would instantly make you blush?” is a deceptively revealing question. It sounds like pure flirting—and it certainly can be—but the answer also shows what ki...
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“What kind of flirting works on you every single time?” is playful on the surface, but the answer can reveal a surprising amount about how someone recognizes attraction. Some people respond...
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