“What’s the boldest text you’d send if you knew I liked you back?” is an invitation to stop being quite so mysterious. You can answer with a joke, admit what you have been thinking or finally suggest a date. The fun is in choosing a reply t...
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The first weeks of college are supposed to look exciting: new friends, late-night conversations, campus events, independence, and the beginning of a completely new life. That image can make...
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You keep seeing the same person in the hallway, kitchen, lounge, or elevator. They seem cool. You would genuinely like to become friends. There is just one problem: every possible opening li...
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You walk into class and it looks like everyone already knows where to sit. People arrive in pairs, save seats for friends, make weekend plans before the professor even starts talking, and so...
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A first college date can go from exciting to painfully interview-like in about three questions: “What’s your major?” “Where are you from?” “What do you want to do after graduation?”Those que...
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You leave class together, he asks whether you want to grab coffee and suddenly a completely ordinary beverage has become a relationship-status puzzle. Is this a date, or are two classmates s...
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He keeps asking if you want to hang out. You talk easily, he seems happy to see you and sometimes the whole thing feels suspiciously like dating—except nobody has actually called it a date....
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Your phone lights up at 11:47 p.m. It is him again. The conversation is fun, maybe flirtatious, and he seems genuinely interested—except you rarely hear from him when the sun is up. Is that...
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“Do you actually like me, or do you just like the idea of me?” is not subtle flirting. It skips past the usual questions about first impressions and favorite compliments and goes directly to...
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“If we met in high school, would you have talked to me first?” is not really a question about high school. It is a disguised question about attraction, confidence and who would have made the...
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