“What’s the boldest text you’d send if you knew I liked you back?” is an invitation to stop being quite so mysterious. You can answer with a joke, admit what you have been thinking or finally suggest a date. The fun is in choosing a reply t...
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There is a special kind of confusion that happens when a guy keeps asking to see you, texts you regularly, and seems genuinely happy around you—but never quite says what he wants. Is this da...
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You keep seeing the same person in the hallway, kitchen, lounge, or elevator. They seem cool. You would genuinely like to become friends. There is just one problem: every possible opening li...
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You walk into class and it looks like everyone already knows where to sit. People arrive in pairs, save seats for friends, make weekend plans before the professor even starts talking, and so...
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You matched, exchanged numbers or started talking after class. The messages are good, the flirting seems mutual and now comes the classic college dating question: how long are you supposed t...
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You have a crush on someone in your class, you already talk occasionally, and asking them to get coffee seems like the obvious next move. There is only one problem: if the invitation lands b...
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“If we met in high school, would you have talked to me first?” is not really a question about high school. It is a disguised question about attraction, confidence and who would have made the...
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Some of the best relationship questions are not really requests for information. They are invitations. “What’s something I do that you find attractive but would never admit first?” is a good...
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“Would you rather make out for an hour or cuddle all night?” sounds like the kind of question designed to produce a quick laugh, a teasing answer or an unexpectedly revealing pause. It is al...
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When Did You Realize We Had Different Chemistry? Going Back to the First Moment of AttractionA good intimate question can turn routine conversation into something more personal, but it works...
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