“What’s the boldest text you’d send if you knew I liked you back?” is an invitation to stop being quite so mysterious. You can answer with a joke, admit what you have been thinking or finally suggest a date. The fun is in choosing a reply t...
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The first weeks of college are supposed to look exciting: new friends, late-night conversations, campus events, independence, and the beginning of a completely new life. That image can make...
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Wanting something casual does not mean wanting something careless. You can be interested in flirting, dating, physical chemistry or spending time together without looking for a committed rel...
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He keeps asking if you want to hang out. You talk easily, he seems happy to see you and sometimes the whole thing feels suspiciously like dating—except nobody has actually called it a date....
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You have a crush on someone in your class, you already talk occasionally, and asking them to get coffee seems like the obvious next move. There is only one problem: if the invitation lands b...
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“Do you actually like me, or do you just like the idea of me?” is not subtle flirting. It skips past the usual questions about first impressions and favorite compliments and goes directly to...
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“If we met in high school, would you have talked to me first?” is not really a question about high school. It is a disguised question about attraction, confidence and who would have made the...
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“Would you rather get a surprise compliment or a surprise invite to hang out?” has exactly the ingredients that make a good low-pressure flirting question: two appealing choices, no obviousl...
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“What’s a compliment from me that would instantly make you blush?” is a deceptively revealing question. It sounds like pure flirting—and it certainly can be—but the answer also shows what ki...
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“What is one little thing I do that you find surprisingly irresistible?” is the kind of couples question that turns an ordinary habit into a confession. It appears almost verbatim in Favor D...
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