“What’s the boldest text you’d send if you knew I liked you back?” is an invitation to stop being quite so mysterious. You can answer with a joke, admit what you have been thinking or finally suggest a date. The fun is in choosing a reply t...
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There is a special kind of confusion that happens when a guy keeps asking to see you, texts you regularly, and seems genuinely happy around you—but never quite says what he wants. Is this da...
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Living with someone can make you analyze tiny interactions more than you normally would. Your roommate says good morning but spends dinner with other friends. They tell you about their day b...
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A first college date can go from exciting to painfully interview-like in about three questions: “What’s your major?” “Where are you from?” “What do you want to do after graduation?”Those que...
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You leave class together, he asks whether you want to grab coffee and suddenly a completely ordinary beverage has become a relationship-status puzzle. Is this a date, or are two classmates s...
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You met him at a college party, talked longer than expected and maybe spent the rest of the night wondering whether the chemistry was real or just the combination of loud music and being awa...
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Your phone lights up at 11:47 p.m. It is him again. The conversation is fun, maybe flirtatious, and he seems genuinely interested—except you rarely hear from him when the sun is up. Is that...
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“Do you actually like me, or do you just like the idea of me?” is not subtle flirting. It skips past the usual questions about first impressions and favorite compliments and goes directly to...
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“If we met in high school, would you have talked to me first?” is not really a question about high school. It is a disguised question about attraction, confidence and who would have made the...
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“Are you good at knowing when someone likes you?” is the kind of question that can sound like casual dating conversation while secretly carrying a much more specific message: Have you notice...
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